Events, Immersions, and Stays

MX Valentina and Caitlyn at home with rope in Aetas Deae

Sensation, Pressure, and Presence: A Journey of Body, Rope, and Connection

An Immersive FLINTA Retreat by Aetas Deae. 24-30 November, 2026 | Lake Como, Northern Italy | An Intimate Circle of up to 8 Participants
Thick natural fiber rope tied into a detailed knot on wooden surface.

Sensation, Edge, and Release: A Somatic Rope & Tantra Journey

Sensation, Edge, and Release: A Somatic Rope & Tantra Journey An Immersive FLINTA Retreat by Aetas Deae 2-7 December | Lake Como, Northern Italy | An Intimate Circle of up to 8 Participants
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Content Creation, Collaboration, and Sisterhood at House of Aetas Deae

Lake Como · June 1-8, 2026 Content Collaboration Circle for Feminine Creators For women who create visual media and wish to collaborate in a feminine led ecosystem.
Women of Aetas Deae on the slopes

High Protocol Ski Weekend in the Italian Alps

Join us for an Alpine Retreat in Late March to explore the call of a new culture and the Feminine-Led Way
Mary Montague on the lake Como at Aetas Deae

Summer Immersion on Lake Como

Join us for a sumptuous High-Protocol initiation into the Feminine-Led Way.

Host Your Gathering

We invite collectives and teachers wishing to bring their own work to the House of Aetas Deae at Lake Como to e-mail us at collaborate@aetasdeae.com - proposals should make clear how you are aligned with the values and ethos of Aetas Deae.

Stay at the House

Short or long stays and contribution-based residencies.
Creators in Residence

Aetas Deae receives writers, artists, and thinkers who wish to bring their individual creative practice to the House at Lake Como. Your time is self-directed rather than programmed, and your level of contribution to the House (whether financial, through service, or a blend) will be determined on a case by case basis. This is not a retreat, but a period of inhabitation: time to write, think, and produce, while benefiting from the ecosystem of the House and helping to maintain its continuity.

Servants in Residence

Aetas Deae welcomes individuals who feel excited by the potential of joining our community through personal service, collective ritual, and care for the ongoing life and operations of the House. This could include practical support, event preparation, gardening, or home maintenance, and is developed between you and the House based on its current needs as well as individual skills and capacities of those wishing to serve in exchange for a period of room and board. This is not casual volunteering, but a form of stewardship that recognises the value of labour and prioritises the flourishing of Matriarchal order.

Bespoke Cooking Classes

Private half-day cooking classes are available for groups of 1-6 people.  They are either late morning ending with lunch or afternoon ending with dinner. Classes are led and organized by our House Mother Mx Valentina. Inquire for pricing and availability.

Immersions & Events

Attend a workshop or immersion hosted by Aetas Deae.
Classes & Workshops

The House and Aetas Deae host a range of workshops which include focus areas such as yoga, shibari, writing, nutrition and health, content creation, and other forms of embodied or creative practice. Classes connected with Aetas Deae will always be organized with experienced practitioners who share our commitment to the feminine led way, and are deliberately molded to be supportive of the FLINTA community and our allies. Specific information on individual class and workshop offerings is accessible on our events page.

Immersions

We have developed a series of immersive experiences that allow for deeper focus, rest, creation and connection over a longer period of time than a workshop or class. Immersions include a group integration call prior to arrival at the Immersion location, and combine structured group sessions, unstructured time, group outings and social activities, and include the provision of meals and accomodation with the cost of the Immersion. These are planned on a seasonal basis and are the best way to immerse yourself in our culture whilst gaining practical skills and knowledge in a retreat-like setting.